I hear ya hon. I never felt the pangs of a personal addiction (for lack of a better word) to the game like so many others. I did have an addiction to the game seriously affect my life however, as too many are well aware. And I did come to love the game after coming through the other side of all of that - mainly because it was something really entertaining to enjoy with my husband and real life friends. :)
Kudos to you for finding enjoyment in a myriad of places these days. I'd love to hang with you in game from time to time, as Nate and I still enjoy playing together when we are able. But I'm so happy to see you putting yourself "out there", evolving as you say, and really ... finding yourself again.
I love seeing you smile. And you've been doing a lot more of that these days. ^.^
Just some thoughts floating around in my mind that I wanted to relate to you. *hugs*